Almost everything that makes a client ‘good’ is motivated by respect for the escort.
A good client is someone who:
Recognizes the escort as an individual:
First and foremost, a good client is a man who recognizes that his paid companion is an individual woman and he respects her as a person.
This usually requires some maturity in the client, along with having had some solid relationships with women.
Often, men who haven’t had much experience with escorts don’t understand this concept.
They see escorts as a commodity or service and not as a personal relationship.
With enough experiences, or meeting the right escort, they usually realize their mistake in perception and change their ideas about the person they pay for companionship.
Some men refuse to see any escort as more than a living sex doll. These men are almost universally loathed by escorts.
Good clients realize that they’re arranging to meet a person and start a relationship, much like dating. They view the search for an escort as informed blind-dating, not shopping for wives.
Pays correctly and is clean:
A good client shows his respect in two tangible ways. He always pays the correct amount without any fuss and he is clean.
Many escorts require payment up front in an envelope.
A good client understands her rules and follows them to the letter (this usually involves not drawing attention to the moment).
This establishes a lot of trust with her and he shows that he respects the way she chooses to run her business.
This is not always possible for a client coming straight from the office or a work site.
In that case, he will take advantage of any shower facilities available.
It’s only polite and a good client is polite!
Many escorts like to keep mouthwash or sample-sized toothbrushes/toothpaste handy as well.
A good client intuitively knows why those items are there.
Doesn’t haggle:
A good client does not haggle or negotiate. An escort’s rates are her rates. Period.
If he wants a better deal, he can become a regular client and try to negotiate from there (with a better chance of success) or he searches for someone within his financial range.
All escorts are luxury items, no matter what they actually charge.
A paid companion is not a basic necessity for life. Good clients recognize payment for what it is – a charge for an out-of-the-ordinary personal experience.
Doesn’t push boundaries:
A good client does not try to push boundaries. A good client doesn’t try to force his way past whatever boundary lines an escort decides to draw in her work.
Some men think such boundaries are there as a personal challenge.
Others feel they can use money as a tool to bribe their way past the comfort zone.
These men aren’t good clients.
A good client respects his companion and realizes there’s a reason for how she structures her work.
An escort can create any number of boundaries for herself – from safer sex to intimacy to travel arrangements; she makes her decisions based on what she feels is best for her well-being.
A good client is a man who recognizes that the lady leads this dance and waits for her to bring him further into her comfort zone.
Understands screening:
A good client understands why an escort needs to screen and willingly shares the information she requests.
Of course, good clients are also worried about what happens with their information.
They will do their best to find escorts that seem reputable, reliable, selective, discreet and trustworthy.
An escort who wants to attract good clients will make sure she doesn’t cause doubts in an already-skeptical potential client.
Men who don’t care about an escort’s safety won’t be willing to give even minimal screening information. They aren’t good clients.