Working as an escort, I have seen naked bodies belonging to my clients in all sorts of positions, settings and lighting. Over the years I have become incredibly comfortable with human bodies and getting naked.
The raw commercial reality of selling sex and desire makes it increasingly obvious that beauty really is in the eye of the beholder. That phrase gets new depth and credibility when you see its sentiment play out again and again in the intro rooms every night. Escort work taught me that for every body there is someone who thinks its sexy enough to pay for it. And its not just my body that I have become comfortable with, but ANY body. Through my work I have seen bodies of all shapes and sizes with all sorts of bodily functions and dysfunctions. I have learnt when to be gentle and work sensitively with other peoples insecurities and body image issues. I have ignored, discussed, nurtured and pleasured every type of physical and sexual hang-up you can imagine. Sometimes clients try to hide what they think is their abnormality for fear of rejection, humiliation or judgement, and some will be completely upfront in an attempt to avoid experiencing judgement or rejection at a later stage. Either way don’t let it effect your self esteem. I can decide who I will and won’t see as a client for any reason I want. For example some escorts won’t see a client from the same cultural background as them (for confidentiality), some may decline because they suspect those skin tags are actually warts or due to the clients disabilities. Some may even have a preference for age or any other kind of physical appearance. That’s completely up to each individual escort. But there are just as many escorts who will not see young men, married men, or clients with lots of muscles, for just as many reasons. And the majority of us only care that our clients are hygienic, respectful and prepared to pay our price.
I have seen so many different genitals and tummys and feet and chests and bottoms and backs and bodily and sexual function and dysfunction and attitudes and egos and insecurities, penis sizes and shapes, circumcised cocks, loose foreskins, foreskins so tight its joined at the top, pearls and ball bearings inserted underneath forskins, hard cocks, soft cocks, cocks that go up and down, wet orgasms, dry orgasms, lots of cum, barely any cum, cum that squirts in all directions, sunburn, blotchy skin, shaved skin, hairy bodies, lost hair, big ones, small ones, ultra sensitive and over stimulated, cum before their pants are off, requires specific actions to make cum, stretched skin, stretch marks, bruised, scars, tattoos, super soft and silky, one testicle bigger than the other, one ball gone, hanging low or high and tight balls, good kissers, bad kissers, old, young, all teeth, false teeth, some missing, business suits, casual clothes, sweating tees, golfing attire, work uniform, jeans and polo, poking out nipples, inverted nipples, hairy back, muscles, skinny, people from many cultures with many religions, scars and birthmarks, injuries, wounds, sex aids, medications, and I have seen all these things across all ages n abilities. I am always reminded that we are all human. We are all vulnerable. Whether we are being paid to use our bodies to sexually arouse others or if we are paying for our body to be aroused. We all bleed and excrete and have lumps and bumps. And we all have insecurities. Too many of us are too worried about our average and regular bodies. We are our own worst critics. Show me yours and u will see mine. It’s the sensuality we are after, not a beauty contest.